The Covert Narcissist

Submitted 3 years ago

This is based on my true story. I met this guy on Facebook it felt like I knew him forever. We started talking on Facebook and he began to tell me about his family dynamic and his relationship with his ex girlfriend. I began to build trust and went to meet him in germany were he resides.
I was living in Scotland studying at the university so We were in a distance relationship But I felt he was the one as we talked every single day.
But in March 2019, I traveled to germany to spend time together as it was his both month. We decided to go to town and I asked him whether I could use the printer when we get home he then asked me to be quiet and that I was talking to much. I did not understand and kept silence. When we got home I asked him if he can help me to print off something for university and he stated that I was stubborn and challenging. I did not understand his change of behavior so I kept calm. He then apologized before going to his second work. After one week of staying with him I flew back to Scotland.

September 2019
I and my ex boyfriend flew to Ghana west Africa. Before our departure I kindly asked him to transfer 1200 pounds into his Barclays account and to withdraw the money once we get to Ghana and he agreed. I then decided to go to visit my parents in Hannover Germany before leaving for my holiday in Ghana. Few days after our departure he met my mother and she started investigating about my ex boyfriend and found information that. He has a child and that he is known to have a bad behavior. I just trusted God and felt that everyone has his past and that people can change to become good people.

When we arrived on Ghana I had the opportunity to meet his mother and other family members. After one months I asked him to withdraw my money from his account and he stated what are you doing with your money you know my family are less privileged compared to you. That's when I noticed his change of behavior and his intention to use me as his money cow. He started meeting women and calling a women he claims to be his girlfriend. I later discovered that he was planning to get married to her after exploiting me. He joined an occcultic group and used charm to make me stay with him and supply him with money.

Thanks to God his charm did not work and I had an awakening I broke up the relationship after our trip to Ghana and went back to Scotland to start my life all over again. I lost my money the man I felt was my soulmate and it was very painful.

I would be delighted to discuss further my story and belobe that my story will help women and men who have been subjected to an abusive Relationship to have the confidence to break free from karmic relationship.